Does Anyone, I Mean ANYone, Know What's Going On?

So I guess I'm closing on my house on Friday... I haven't heard otherwise, but I also haven't had a confirmation on that date either. This whole process has been ridiculous. I've been asked to provide so many financial documents and verification of those documents (helloooo! you're holding the documents in hand. Isn't that proof enough?) that I actually feel a little naked and somewhat violated. I also have asked a couple of times about a couple of things, and haven't been able to get answers....which is irritating. I mean, I get that people are busy and I'm not the only person buying a house right now, but come on! How hard is it to return a phone call? Especially when I'm asking you to confirm that you got something you asked me to send you??!! Grrr!